Fitting the Pieces of 2019 Together

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It’s a New Year, and the way I see it, it’s like fitting the pieces of a puzzle together.  Now that 2018 is over, I find some missing pieces that somehow didn’t fit last year.  Let’s see:

Whoops, there’s the piece that said I was going to lose 10 pounds.  That one must have fallen on the floor.

Yikes, here’s the piece that was supposed to bring me more business.  That one must have stuck to another piece and I just didn’t see it.

Uh-Oh, here’s the piece that was going to help me slow down and enjoy the things that are important to me  That one must have stuck to the bottom of my shoe.

There’s a lot of missing pieces and a lot of goals I didn’t quite accomplish, but you know what?  I get to try again.  It’s a New Year and I can make a promise to myself to pick up those missing pieces, turn them inside out and upside down, and work with them until they fit.  I have the power to complete the picture that I see for my future. 

So, you see, you don’t have to throw the entire puzzle away.  You just have to look at it differently and see how you can make 2019 a better year.  Personally, I doubt that my own puzzle will ever be completed – and I’ve come to accept that.  My goal is to take my ever-changing life and cherish that unfinished puzzle, find the missing pieces that make it more complete, and be kind to myself, knowing I am doing the best that I can.  I truly wish you all a New Year filled with all the love, happiness and success your heart can handle.  After all, those are the most important pieces of all.

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I Just Need Possible

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I just heard some fascinating news on the radio – YES, I still listen to the radio!

The announcer said that today, half way through January, 75% of New Year’s resolutions will be abandoned.  What?  75%?  It’s only two weeks into the New Year and the New You.  What would make someone give up so quickly?

Then, as I was pointing my finger towards others, I noticed that four of my fingers were pointing back at me.  How many times have I made the same resolutions year after year after year?  I began to wonder why they seemed so hard to keep, and I came up with these five ideas:

1.        Sometimes we get so excited and so ambitious and we make a LIST of resolutions.  No wonder we become overwhelmed and discouraged.  Try focusing on just ONE change.  I know a year seems like a long time to work on only one thing, but just think how amazing it would be if you actually got that one thing accomplished, finished, done with, and never again to be seen on another New Year’s resolution list – ever again.

2.       Be kind to yourself.  If you falter today, start again tomorrow.  Don’t beat yourself up or throw in the towel.  This change will take time, and as my mother always said: “You have more time than money.”

3.       Celebrate your success along the way.  That doesn’t mean a hot fudge sundae if your goal is to lose weight, but maybe it could be something like taking time for a bubble bath or sharing a glass of wine with a friend.

4.        Remember that you have a choice.  My weakness is chocolate so I’m always struggling with losing those extra pounds.  When I reach for that chocolate, I tell myself that I have a choice – I can eat that chocolate now or I can have a healthier body.  Which is more important?  If I’m honest, the chocolate does win out more often than I’d like to admit, but I’m working on that.  Knowing that I have a choice helps me to put things in perspective.

5.       Make your resolution a year long process, not just a one night statement.  Work at it every day until it becomes a habit.  I once heard someone say (and I paraphrase): I don’t need easy, I just need possible.  Make your resolution a promise to yourself that is possible.

Well, let me know how it goes.  Right now I’m going to make myself part of the 25% that have not given up on their resolutions.  I’m working on making mine possible.

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