Thatâ€™s a pretty powerful statement to make – saying that only four words could change my life. But itâ€™s true. These four words literally gave me a different outlook and helped me deal with all the craziness and challenges that have crept into my life and shaped me into the person I am today. These four words have helped me keep my sanity and deal with an uncertain future. Ok, ok, so what are they already???
I HAVE A CHOICE
That it! These four short words have made an immense impact on me. You see, when a crisis hits, you may feel like you have no choices and have no control, but you always do.
At your core you always have a choice;
At your core you always have control.
When you realize this, you will be able to handle anything that comes your way. All you have to do is stop and ask yourself: what are my choices and what can I control right now at this very moment? This is true even in the middle of a pandemic: Â you have choices, there are opportunities, and you do have control. It may not look exactly the way you imagined it so you may have to be a little creative and a bit open minded. It is all there in front of you, though, and itâ€™s up to you to decide how you will handle the changes that come your way.
You can spend your days complaining about your losses or you can grow from them. The choice is yours, but make no mistake – you cannot do both. You cannot complain and grow at the same time.
So, which one will you choose? Remember the four words I shared that changed my life. Now itâ€™s up to you:
YOU HAVE A CHOICE