A simple little thing called the gratitude list actually transformed my life.
Has your life ever been turned upside down? You know what I mean – when you are faced with the kind of challenge that is so great it feels like you’ve been socked in the stomach and you can hardly breathe. You don’t know how you’re going to get out of bed in the morning to even put one foot in front of the other. We’ve all been there, whatever your challenge may be.
For me, it was a 15 year relationship that suddenly ended, and through a series of circumstances, it lead me to losing my business, losing my home, and worst of all, losing myself! I don’t have to tell you that my belief in myself and my self-confidence were shaken to the core.
But life has twists and turns, and years later my life took another turn that helped me to recreate myself and start over again. I now have a successful career, welcoming home, and a loving marriage. I can honestly say that a huge part of my transformation came from using a gratitude list every day.
During my darkest moments, it was really hard to find anything I was grateful for. As awful as that may sound, it’s true. I couldn’t think of anything good in my life– I could think of only what I had lost. So every day for 30 days – that’s the trick – 30 days, I took out a pad of paper and pen and wrote down everything I was grateful for that day. And as the days passed, I found that my list got longer and the things I was grateful for came easier to me. At the end of the 30 days, I actually felt better. And that’s all I wanted – to feel better.
I’m not kidding you. This gratitude list really works. So if you find yourself in a sad place – or even a happy one, try writing down what you are grateful for every day for 30 days. Let me know how it goes.
I do believe there are three phases to gratitude and writing your gratitude list every day is the first phase. I will share my thoughts on the other two phases in my next two blogs.
Happy writing; happy new discoveries!